The Magic of Family Game Night is Building Bonds One Roll at a Time
Reconnect with loved ones through family game night! Discover fun games and tips to boost connection, create lasting memories, and prioritise family self-care.
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Dear Spirited Earthling,
It’s time to bring back family game night! Between work, school, and endless to-do lists, quality family time often slips away. But what if one of the simplest acts of self-care was gathering for a family game night? A regular game night lets you unplug, enjoy some friendly competition, and simply be present with each other. So, gather your family, play some games, and enjoy each other's company.
Benefits of Family Game Night for Connection and Emotional Well-Being
Beyond entertainment, the magic of family game night lies in its mix of learning, laughter, mindfulness, and memory-making. Regular game nights offer many benefits for your family well-being:
Nurturing Connection and Care: Dedicating time for family game night actively nurtures connection and strengthens the emotional bonds within the family. Sharing laughter over a silly card game or collaborating on a board game creates a fun atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable, loved, and seen.
Unserious Space for Joy and Togetherness: Let's face it, a lot of life can be serious. Game night can be a designated zone for light-heartedness and playfulness. Unlike forced small talk, games give you a natural way to connect with being a pressure-free way to be playful, let loose, and make joyful memories.
Fun Development of Essential Life Skills: From strategic thinking and problem-solving in board games to quick reflexes in action games, game night subtly builds valuable skills for everyone. Moreover, being exposed to different perspectives within a game can develop empathy, open-mindedness, and understanding among family members. Games can also help kids (and adults) develop patience, gracious winning/losing, and teamwork (all skills that build emotional resilience).
Screen-free Attention: In a world saturated with screens, game night offers a welcome digital detox, allowing for undivided attention and deeper, more meaningful interactions. It's a mindful choice to be fully present with each other.
Something for Everyone: The beauty of game night lies in its versatility. Whether your family enjoys classic board games, fast-paced card games, cooperative adventures, or even charades, there's a game out there for every age and interest, ensuring everyone can participate and feel included.
The simple truth is that bringing back game night encourages laughter (which reduces stress and releases feel good hormones) and reminds us that happiness thrives in simplicity. These shared moments of fun and connection become treasured memories and can be a comforting anchor during more challenging times.
How to Start a Family Game Night Tradition That Lasts
Ready to start (or refresh) your family game night tradition? Here are some ideas of where to start:
Pick a day and stick to it
Depending on everyone’s time commitments and schedules, the frequency of game nights will vary. If weekly game nights are challenging to maintain, consider bi-weekly or monthly sessions. The key is to find a balance that works for your family and allows everyone to participate and enjoy the experience. It should be thought of as a wind down and not another obligation.
Choose games that bring joy
Pick games that suit your family’s vibe that focus on fun, not just competition. It could be classic board games (Scrabble, Monopoly, Uno), cooperative games (Pandemic, Forbidden Island), or even storytelling games (Dixit, Apples to Apples). Each person can choose a game to play to cover different interests, and helps ensure everyone feels invested and excited.
Don't be afraid to adapt rules or create your own house rules to make games more accessible or engaging for your family.
Set the mood
Have some favourite snacks, choose a different theme for each gathering (dress-up, food, drinks), or have a playlist that gets everyone in the mood. There are ways to make the experience slightly different from the ‘norm’, while keeping it simple and enjoyable, adding to the relaxed and convivial atmosphere.
Keep it light and positive
The point is to have fun together. Encourage kindness and laughter over cutthroat competition. If someone gets frustrated, take a breath and remind everyone that the goal is connection, not just winning. Make light of losing and compliment winning moves.
It’s also a chance to nurture emotional intelligence and notice how your family interacts. Notice how your children handle competition, how your partner approaches challenges, and how you respond to both victory and defeat. These observations can provide valuable insights into family dynamics and areas for growth.
A round of gratitude
After the game, take a moment to share what you enjoyed most. Gratitude reinforces the positive experience and makes everyone eager for the next game night. A simple, my favourite moment tonight was…
Think about keeping a "Game Night Journal" to record memorable moments and funny incidents. Take photos to capture the joy and create lasting memories, not to post online – just for you.
Best Family Games for All Ages and Interests
There are some children’s games that can still bring you joy, so think back on your favourites growing up. Here are a few ideas to get started:
Classics: Monopoly, Scrabble, Chess, Checkers, Connect Four, Clue/Cluedo
Card Games: Uno, Phase 10, Apples to Apples, Exploding Kittens, Cards Against Humanity, Happy Little Dinosaurs
Cooperative Games: Pandemic, Forbidden Island, Dungeons and Dragons
Party Games: Pictionary, Charades, Codenames, 30 Seconds
Strategy Games: Ticket to Ride, Carcassonne, Catan
Themed Games: The Lord of the Rings (card game), Harry Potter (Trivial Pursuit), Pokémon (Monopoly), Scooby-Doo (Clue), The Nightmare Before Christmas (Operation)
Here are some game suggestions for different ages:
For families with young children, look at games like Snakes and Ladders, Ludo, Picture Bingo, and memory games.
For families with older children, try games like Uno, Monopoly Junior, Scrabble, Catan Junior, Clue Junior, Guess Who, Rummikub, Twister, Trekking.
For families with teens, you are open to play classic board games, strategy games, and trivia games.
For families with partners only, try games like Bananagrams, Jenga, Card Games (Gin Rummy, Shithead, Hearts), Battleship, Murder Mysteries
Not a board game suggestion, but puzzles are also great options.
Ready to Roll the Dice?
Family game night is an investment in connection, laughter, and shared memories. It's a simple yet powerful way to strengthen family bonds and build cherished traditions (a simple, joyful form of family self-care). So, dust off those board games, shuffle those cards, and get ready for a regular evening of fun!
What are your favourite family games that bring you closer? Share your recommendations and tips for a great family game night in the comments below! Or share your funniest or most memorable moment your family has shared during game night.
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